Is your desktop pc perhaps configured to turn off your wireless device to save power?
Is your SSID set to broadcast or hidden?
Does the Wireless Zero Config utility (the one that's in Windows by default) think that it's supposed to control your wireless connection? Having both programs fighting for control can cause problems.
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